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Episode 33: How To Do Online Dating In Your 40’s


How To Do Online Dating (Successfully!) In Your 40’s with Kylie Mitchell

When Kylie decided to get back on the dating scene when she was in her mid-40’s, she knew that unless she got some help, she was never going to find the right guy. So she educated herself on how to attract the man of her dreams, including which photos to use and which to avoid.


That was my response when my friend, Kylie Mitchell, told me that she was going to start online dating. I mean, dating is an interesting and challenging event at the best of times, but online dating is a complete minefield.

And then add into that mix, the fact that Kylie was getting into online dating when she was in her 40’s?

Like I said: mental.

After two failed marriages, Kylie felt that she had “one good relationship in her”. Since she lived in a country town at the time, pickings of the single male variety were pretty limited, so she had to widen her search and set herself up on online dating sites.

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After becoming a bit disheartened with the whole thing, she decided to educate herself and find out exactly how she could find a life partner in the online dating scene.

It can be done!

Interested? This is a fascinating conversation, even if you’re not out to find a new partner!

Here are some of the things you’ll discover in the podcast:

  • Why this photo won Kylie the partner of her dreams
  • What the differences are between Manspeak and Womanspeak
  • What are the warning signs that a guy is just interested in a one night stand
  • How to spot whether you’re behaving in a “masculine” or feminine” energy way
  • Why do most relationships fail
  • Why it’s crucial to be happy with yourself before you enter into a relationship
  • How to stop behaving in old, familiar patterns that prevent you from having the kind of relationship that you want
  • How to switch between the “masculine” and “feminine” energies and the effect that it has on the men around you
  • What men REALLY find attractive (in a potential long term partner)
  • Why you absolutely MUST join the Menopause, Marriage and Motherhood Facebook Group (which you can do by clicking here!)

Listen to the podcast and find out more about this hilarious woman and her experiences with online dating in her 40’s.

After becoming a bit disheartened with the whole thing, she decided to educate herself and find out exactly how she could find a life partner in the online dating scene.

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About Today’s Guest Kylie Mitchell

Owner and Creator of Art Houses by Kylie Mitchell

a multiple award-winning Accredited Building Designer, Interior Designer, and Artist who specializes in compact, sustainable, residential design.

She has been the Principle and lead designer of her own business for 15 years and working in the industry as a Designer for 20 years.

Kylie draws on her extensive creative skills to create unique homes that express and encapsulate her client’s physical, emotional, and lifestyle needs while extending their awareness and inclusion of sustainable design principles and products.

Kylie’s ultimate goal is to blend visual arts with Building Design to encourage and allow people to immerse themselves into architectural creative expression as an everyday living experience.

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Kylie is a full member of the BDAA, a past chapter President, student mentor and, Policy Advisor within the BDAA.

As a two-time cancer survivor, she raises funds for the Olivier Newton-John Cancer Research and Wellness Centre through the sale of art.

Kylie has also authored 3 E-Books as guides and information for people looking to build or renovate their homes.

Listen to Kylie’s podcast episode about her experiences with cancer here.

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